About us

About us Couple of Secrets

We are Aliki and Xander, an ordinary couple on a journey to nurture and expand our sexual space. We are writers, parents and, above all, passionate lovers. We refuse the premise that sex becomes boring and humdrum over time. In life what you give is what you get and this is all more the case with sex: just because it comes easy in the beginning, doesn’t mean it doesn’t need to be taken care of.

We are a sex-positive couple walking the talk, and we would like to inspire other couples and learn from them.

Why Couple of SecretsCouple of Secrets is a window into our sexual space, an authentic account of what the life of a sex-positive couple looks like. The world, it seems, misses authentic accounts of how a relationship doesn’t have to be either a pair of clandestine passionate lovers or two tired-out people sharing a mortgage and kids.

We cherish our privacy (and yours too!) and we are sure you understand why we don’t reveal the entirety of our common life. However, there is one promise we can make: everything we put on Couple of Secrets is authentic, depicted as it happened in real life.

Why Couple of Secrets

Some years ago we tentatively started recounting our stories when we realized that many friends were interested to hear about our sexual experiences. Soon it became clear that what we considered our own ‘eccentricity’ was in fact shared by many people around us. In a world where sexual fulfillment is becoming a life goal, sexual exploration is getting more and more mainstream.

There is one main message that we want to pass on: the sexual life of a committed couple can be exciting, fulfilling and long-lasting.

Who is Couple of Secrets for

If you are here and reading and if you are above 18 (if not, this blog is not for you!) we suppose that you are interested in sexual exploration. And if you are interested in nurturing a healthy, sexual lifestyle with your partner then Couple of Secrets is meant just for you.

Our message is clear: together with your partner you can develop a rich and fulfilling sexual space that evolves as you grow together!

Who are we?
About us Couple of Secrets

We are Aliki and Xander, an ordinary couple on a journey to nurture and expand our sexual space. We are writers, parents and, above all, passionate lovers. We refuse the premise that sex becomes boring and humdrum over time. In life what you give is what you get and this is all more the case with sex: just because it comes easy in the beginning, doesn’t mean it doesn’t need to be taken care of.

We are a sex-positive couple walking the talk, and we would like to inspire other couples and learn from them.

What is Couple of Secrets?

Why Couple of SecretsCouple of Secrets is a window into our sexual space, an authentic account of what the life of a sex-positive couple looks like. The world, it seems, misses authentic accounts of how a relationship doesn’t have to be either a pair of clandestine passionate lovers or two tired-out people sharing a mortgage and kids.

We cherish our privacy (and yours too!) and we are sure you understand why we don’t reveal the entirety of our common life. However, there is one promise we can make: everything we put on Couple of Secrets is authentic, depicted as it happened in real life.

Why do we blog?

Why Couple of Secrets

Some years ago we tentatively started recounting our stories when we realized that many friends were interested to hear about our sexual experiences. Soon it became clear that what we considered our own ‘eccentricity’ was in fact shared by many people around us. In a world where sexual fulfillment is becoming a life goal, sexual exploration is getting more and more mainstream.

There is one main message that we want to pass on: the sexual life of a committed couple can be exciting, fulfilling and long-lasting.

Who is this for?

Who is Couple of Secrets for

If you are here and reading and if you are above 18 (if not, this blog is not for you!) we suppose that you are interested in sexual exploration. And if you are interested in nurturing a healthy, sexual lifestyle with your partner then Couple of Secrets is meant just for you.

Our message is clear: together with your partner you can develop a rich and fulfilling sexual space that evolves as you grow together!

Who is Couple of Secrets

 

We are Aliki and Xander, an ordinary couple on a journey to nurture and expand our sexual space. We are writers, parents and, above all, passionate lovers. We refuse the premise that sex becomes boring and humdrum over time. In life what you give is what you get and this is all more the case with sex: just because it comes easy in the beginning, doesn’t mean it doesn’t need to be taken care of.

We are a sex-positive couple walking the talk, and we would like to inspire other couples and learn from them.

What is Couple of Secrets

 

Couple of Secrets is a window into our sexual space, an authentic account of what the life of a sex-positive couple looks like. The world, it seems, misses authentic accounts of how a relationship doesn’t have to be either a pair of clandestine passionate lovers or two tired-out people sharing a mortgage and kids.

We cherish our privacy (and yours too!) and we are sure you understand why we don’t reveal the entirety of our common life. However, there is one promise we can make: everything we put on Couple of Secrets is authentic, depicted as it happened in real life.

Why Couple of Secrets

 

Some years ago we tentatively started recounting our stories when we realized that many friends were interested to hear about our sexual experiences. Soon it became clear that what we considered our own ‘eccentricity’ was in fact shared by many people around us. In a world where sexual fulfillment is becoming a life goal, sexual exploration is getting more and more mainstream.

There is one main message that we want to pass on: the sexual life of a committed couple can be exciting, fulfilling and long-lasting.

Who is Couple of secrets for

 

If you are here and reading and if you are above 18 (if not, this blog is not for you!) we suppose that you are interested in sexual exploration. And if you are interested in nurturing a healthy, sexual lifestyle with your partner then Couple of Secrets is meant just for you.

Our message is clear: together with your partner you can develop a rich and fulfilling sexual space that evolves as you grow together!

Who are we?

Who is Couple of Secrets

 

We are Aliki and Xander, an ordinary couple on a journey to nurture and expand our sexual space. We are writers, parents and, above all, passionate lovers. We refuse the premise that sex becomes boring and humdrum over time. In life what you give is what you get and this is all more the case with sex: just because it comes easy in the beginning, doesn’t mean it doesn’t need to be taken care of.

We are a sex-positive couple walking the talk, and we would like to inspire other couples and learn from them.

What is Couple of Secrets?

What is Couple of Secrets

 

Couple of Secrets is a window into our sexual space, an authentic account of what the life of a sex-positive couple looks like. The world, it seems, misses authentic accounts of how a relationship doesn’t have to be either a pair of clandestine passionate lovers or two tired-out people sharing a mortgage and kids.

We cherish our privacy (and yours too!) and we are sure you understand why we don’t reveal the entirety of our common life. However, there is one promise we can make: everything we put on Couple of Secrets is authentic, depicted as it happened in real life.

Why do we blog?

Why Couple of Secrets

 

Some years ago we tentatively started recounting our stories when we realized that many friends were interested to hear about our sexual experiences. Soon it became clear that what we considered our own ‘eccentricity’ was in fact shared by many people around us. In a world where sexual fulfillment is becoming a life goal, sexual exploration is getting more and more mainstream.

There is one main message that we want to pass on: the sexual life of a committed couple can be exciting, fulfilling and long-lasting.

Who is this for?

Who is Couple of secrets for

 

If you are here and reading and if you are above 18 (if not, this blog is not for you!) we suppose that you are interested in sexual exploration. And if you are interested in nurturing a healthy, sexual lifestyle with your partner then Couple of Secrets is meant just for you.

Our message is clear: together with your partner you can develop a rich and fulfilling sexual space that evolves as you grow together!